Kindness Meets Action: Navigating Election Season with Compassionate Candor

9/6/2024 5:15 pm

As we navigate this crucial election season, let’s remember the power of compassionate candor. This means speaking our truths with kindness and listening to others with empathy. By engaging in honest, respectful dialogue about the issues that matter to us as moms and citizens, we can build understanding and inspire action in our communities.

 

Imagine discussing the upcoming election with a neighbor whose views differ from yours. Instead of avoiding the topic, try saying: “I know we may not agree on everything, but I’d love to understand your perspective on the local school funding initiative. I’m concerned about classroom sizes, but I’m curious about what issues are important to you.” This approach often leads to more productive discussions and can uncover common ground.

 

September 17th is National Voter Registration Day — a pressing reminder in a year when crucial issues like IVF access, child tax credits, and women’s healthcare are at stake. The recent tragic school shooting at Apalachee High School in Winder, Georgia, underscores the urgency of addressing gun violence and protecting our children. As we near the one-year mark of the war in Gaza, with its devastating human toll, we’re reminded that while an election can’t solve everything, it does provide us with a voice when we critically need one.

 

If you’re wondering how to make the greatest impact this election season, here are some key steps:

 

1. Make sure you’re registered to vote. 
All of a sudden everyone we know is moving. Maybe you moved this year too? These things affect your voter registration so no better time than now to check. 

This will take you 20 seconds. Also, here’s a list of voter registration deadlines in Texas.

 

2. Step outside your social circles and practice compassionate candor. 
Every single person has influence over the people in their lives. If you’re having conversations in your close circle of friends or on social media, keep having them. But take stock: Honestly assess who isn’t in your social media circles. Where are they? How can you best reach them? If you’re looking to push the needle among those who may not be in your immediate circles, you can certainly do that. 

 

Take a deep breath and remember it’s okay to disagree. Try something like: “This [political topic] is pretty complex. Here’s where I stand… But I’m really curious about your take. What are your thoughts?” If things get heated, bring it back to shared values: “We might not agree, but I know we both want what’s best for our community. How can we work towards that together?”

 

The key is to be honest about your stance while genuinely trying to understand the other person. Remember, sometimes just having a respectful conversation is a win.

 

Extend your reach by making calls, sending texts, writing postcards, or volunteering with organizations like When We All Vote. 

 

3. Make a voting plan — and help others make one too. 
Here’s how to make a voting plan — the most important steps are to:

• Make sure you’re registered to vote (today!)
• Request an absentee ballot if you need one this year. Take note of any mail-in deadlines. 
• Make sure you know where your polling location is if you’re voting in-person.
• Compassionately encourage others to make their voting plan. 

Bonus points if you volunteer to work the polls.

 

4. Look down-ballot. 
Have candid discussions about the impact of down-ballot races. While the presidential race is crucial, don’t overlook local positions, Attorneys General, and senators. These officials often have a more direct impact on your daily life, influencing everything from education and healthcare to public transportation.

Take time to research these races. Consider dividing the task among friends and sharing your findings.

 

5. Rest as needed. But don’t stop. 
A friend recently said, “For the first time in my adult life, I remembered to take the day after Election Day off.” And that is incredibly valid. At All Moms, we’re planning a low-key gathering the day after to rest, recharge, and gently process results together. Consider creating a similar space in your community.

One thing to keep in mind, though, is that voting is just the surface of civic engagement and community care. Here are some other ways you can provide additional help right now:

• Volunteer for local organizations or initiatives that align with your values and address community needs.
• Attend city council sessions to stay informed about and participate in local decision-making processes.
• Keep contacting your representatives to share your viewpoints on issues that matter to you.
• Organize or participate in community discussions where diverse viewpoints are welcomed and respected. Practice compassionate candor by sharing your views honestly while creating a safe space for others to do the same.

Remember, every conversation where we practice compassionate candor is a step towards a more engaged and understanding community. 

 

See you at the polls!

Alicia